Thank you to the folks who stopped by and made comments on my Saturday slice Figuring Out My Life's Purpose. It meant a lot to me that you took time from your busy day to share your thoughts and advice. You helped me realize that I'm not alone in my search.
I was feeling like I needed some time to myself yesterday so I skipped a few chores and went to one of my favorite places, Barnes and Noble. As I browsed the "New Arrivals" table, a title caught my eye. One Month to Live by Kerry and Chris Shook. I thumbed through and read a pages. The tone seemed very compasionate, and I wanted to read more. I have so many questions about the direction and purpose of my life, I wondered if this little books could help me find the answers I need to feel at peace. I took the book to the cafe' and sat down with a cup of chai. Much of what I read was not new to me. Over the years, I've read dozens of self-help books that promise to guide you in finding your life's purpose. One thing I did like about this one is that it consists of daily strategies, small steps to change your life and live with no-regrets. Many of the steps like forgiving people and letting those you love know it, I've always done.
I read the stategies that most applied to what I'm looking for. Once again, most of them were not new to me. I left without buying the book because I thought it might end up on my shelf with the others. We're living on my income alone these days so I try to spend money on needs over wants. As I said, I already own a lot of self-help books. Also, the title One Month to Live grabbed my attention, but after a while the thinking about that concept started to feel depressing. I think it might make me even more anxious about finding my purpose before my time runs out! : )
I'm wondering if any of you have read ONE MONTH TO LIVE, and if it really helped you find your life's purpose. Was there another book you found more helpful?
I haven't read the book, but it sounds interesting...yet a little bit depressing. I might just stick with "Purpose Driven Life".
ReplyDeleteJaana- yes the title is very depressing, but I think the overall message of living like you're time is running out (because it is) is good for most people, but I just stress over it!
DeleteYes, Purpose-driven Life might give you encouragement. I got a lot out of Journey of Desire by John Eldredge, too. My personal go-to book for direction is the Bible. Many, many days find me sitting on my bed pondering some great question, writing out long prayers to God, pouring my heart out to him. Then I like to read someone's story in the Gospel, and really put myself in their shoes. I try to imagine what they we taking, seeing, hearing, smelling, tasting, touching, and what questions may have gone through their minds. You a looking for God's will for you. Ask Him to show you. I think He will.
ReplyDeleteLinda, I wonder if you are like me. My children are grown-up now, and they don't really need me to be constantly available for them. I feel a bit superfluous now. Itt is time for me to find other people to serve. It is in serving others that we express our love for God, and that He expresses His love through us.
ReplyDeleteJama- yes, my sons are grown and live some distance away. I don't get to see them much. I miss doing all the "mom" things, but most of all I miss spending time talking with them. We used to go to lunch every Saturday and talk about all sorts of things. Now, it seems like I know less and less about their lives, maybe that's the way it's supposed to be, but it makes me so sad. Thanks for your kind thoughts and suggestions.
DeleteBooks for inspiration, there are so many. I haven't read this one but it sounds like you are a reflective person who will keep seeking out what you are looking for. Purpose is so difficult to define, but I am sure much of your purpose is felt by others and less known to you. Feel comfort in that, we so often are left not knowing how much we impact others in positive ways.
ReplyDeleteBetsy- Thank you for your comment. I know you are right. I think I'm just trying to find where I fit now that I no longer have children at home to care for. My identity has always been tied to being my sons' mom and my ex-husband's wife. Non I need to redefine who I am. Change is hard for me.
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